Lydia, a twenty-six year old woman who has been married for about two years now, has shared the horrifying experiences that her husband is putting her through in the marriage.
She called Adwen the Love Doctor during the In Bed with Adwen adult show to share her ordeal. Lydia disclosed that things have been very rough for her right from the beginning of her marriage and her husband who is supposed to be her support would rather go months without talking to her, eating her food or staying home whenever they had a little misunderstanding.
Adding to this, she revealed that she got pregnant with their second child when their first born was a year and six months old, and upon telling him, he got angry with her, complaining that she should have waited a bit longer before getting pregnant again because their first child was still too young.
“I told him it was not my plan to get pregnant and since our first child was already a year and a half, he would be two years and a few months old when the new baby is born, hence, things would be fine but he didn’t agree. I can’t tell if he took in something before having sex with me around that period but I lost the baby, hence I had to go through a D&C procedure to have the baby removed”, she narrated.
According to Lydia, it has been over a year since that incident and he has refused to touch her, yet she finds lubricants in and boxers stained with sperm hidden in his bag every time. “He would be with me at home and call his girlfriend telling her the sexual things he wants to do to her. Now, she is pregnant and he has moved into another rented apartment with her. He only comes home on some weekends to see his son”, the young lady lamented.
Lydia admitted that with the kind of treatment he has put her through, she does not feel any love for him anymore, however, she is still stuck in the marriage as he is refusing to grant her a divorce and his parents are acting unconcerned about the whole issue.
She mentioned that the issue has been reported to the DOVVSU and she is waiting on them to commence processes to help her get a divorce, however, Adwen advised that she take the issue straight to court, as she does not need to go through DOVVSU to get a divorce.
By: Maureen Dedei Quaye
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