Treating them like royalty when they are secretly sleeping with someone else is something you would never want to do. So if you see some of these 4 signs in your partner, then it’s high time you clear things up with them.
You obviously know the urges and desires your partner has about sex and you are the only one who satisfies their needs, but if, lately, they have not been showing any need for sex, then there is something wrong. It is not absolutely sure that they are sleeping with someone else if their sex routine changes, but if the change is sudden and the disinterest in you comes as a shock without any good explanation for it, then they may be sleeping with someone else. Most people like to get dirty, but if most people get dirty early in the day, they won’t want more dirty in the night. Why would they want to have sex with you if they are already getting enough of it from someone else?
Here, we repeat, that do not doubt your partner without being completely sure. If their behaviour is actually very different and they suddenly go from wild-excited to turtle-excited in bed, then we suggest you look for more signs. A declining sex life might point towards declining relationship, or the fact that they are sleeping with someone else.
Taking their privacy away is something you shouldn’t do, but if they take advantage of your trust on them then they are either a terrible person or they think you are stupid enough to trust them blindly. If they take too long to text you back or return a call, then there are chances of them cheating on you. In the dating period, you get to know how quick they are at replying to your texts and how long it takes them to get back to you on a phone call. If that is changed and they deliberately take hours to text you back, there is enough space for doubt to arise. It does not take too much time to reply to a text and even if they are actually busy, it won’t be once or twice. Repetition of late response is a sign for you.
Adding a screen lock to their phone is another sign. If you have never tried to unlock their phone to read their conversations and check their call logs, why is it that they suddenly felt the need to lock their phone? They clearly want to hide something from you, and that ‘something’ can be a ‘someone’ they are fooling around with behind your back.
This one may sound like a dramatic and typical sign but people actually make excuses like ‘There’s a lot of work today’ and ‘I may have to spend the night’ when they want to sneak out for something illegitimate. It is also one of the very old excuses. It is really stupid of them to use it but it can be a signal for you to be in charge and find out what’s happening, especially if it starts happening frequently.
If your partner is cheating on you and sleeping with someone else, they are aware of the fact that either you won’t question them about the time they spend at the office or you are too shy to call their boss and ask them about it. If half of their month is spent ‘working late’ yet no extra money is transferred to their account, then it is a sign; it is not work they are doing late at nights.
Call them on it, or call their boss if your doubt increases. Do not be shy or care about what he will think, because if they are actually sleeping with another person, you will regret not questioning them earlier. Confrontation is important because a relationship where trust is played with is a relationship better broken.
If your partner is usually not too interested in looking good, but they suddenly starting paying too much attention to their looks, maybe they are either trying to impress someone (which maybe you or) other than you or have already impressed someone. Self-grooming is a normal thing to do for anybody, but if they never had a problem going out with a gray shirt and blue jeans but perfectly dress up now before going out, there is some place for planting your doubt. If not dresses then it can be anything new they start doing that they never did before, like using a deodorant or caring too much about their hair. These are all signs for you to only be suspicious and make sure that whether they are doing it for themselves or for someone else.
