Ghanaian sex coach, Akosua Davis, has observed that some women use sex as a form of punishment, and has shared a few reasons for this.
During an interview with Adwen, the Love Doctor on eTV Ghana’s In Bed with Adwen, she stated that back in the day, people did not know the benefits of sex, hence, women considered it as a favour being done for their man.
Since women thought it was a favour to men, they tended to also use it as a form of punishment whenever the man had done something wrong, ie. by denying them sex.
“Some men are only nice when they are horny. That is when he buys a loaf of bread to please his wife just so she would allow him to have sex. Because of this, even when a woman wants to ask you for something, she will wait till you are horny”, she said.
Akosua further explained that in this case, the man would have no option than to provide what is being asked of him because he can not afford to put up with blue balls for not having sex.
“The women noticed that if a man is horny and does not have sex, he will end up with blue balls and that is very painful, so that is how they will punish men”, the sex coach revealed.
Akosua Davis did not fail to note that women doing this is not right, however, she added that men should also treat women right at all times and not only when they want to satisfy their sexual cravings.
By: Maureen Dedei Quaye
